Madison, a 25-year-old from Indiana, decided to meet up with a man she’d been talking to on Tinder for around three weeks a few months ago. “He had planned to take me out to dinner, but he changed his mind and instead invited me back to his house to see a movie.”
Madison, who is currently in recovery, claims that once they returned to his house, her date insisted on drinking alcohol with him. She became agitated and decided to call an Uber to go away. Her date became enraged as she was waiting for the car, and the two had this really terrible exchange, which she recently shared on TikTok. It has received over 1.3 million views so far. There are references to sexual assault.
Madison’s date shames her for not sleeping with him in the video, telling her that grownups don’t use Tinder to date; they use it “to fuck,” and that Madison was deceiving him by using it in the first place.
Madison then informs her date that if that’s how he feels, he should state it explicitly in his dating profile. “If you say that, you’re not going to get any Tinder matchups!” he says. *
*In other words, if you want women to return to your place, you should LIE about your intentions. Gross.
Madison then basically informs him that his thesis is nonsense (which it is) and that he is an example of “toxic masculinity” (which it is). He assures her that it is not the case; it is “reality.” He also adds she has to “wake up” and that “he’s trying to help” her avoid getting into this scenario again.
What’s that noise you’re hearing? It’s simply my blood that’s boiling.